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Grateful to be an Aussie today and every day

Happy Australia Day to all Aussies new and old.

Australia Day Flag
Grateful and proud to be an Aussie today and every day.

Yes, that includes newly born, or newly arrived – refugee, immigrants, and those who are born on this great island land.

There’s plenty of reason to be celebrating today (though perhaps the weather isn’t one of them – come on Sunshine!). Here’s my favourites:

  • We have freedom and no war torn land. (Particularly our new Syrian refugees I hope you are enjoying this bit the most).
  • We have white sandy beaches that we can run our bare feet through towards a salty blue ocean.
  • We have a total of 220 sunny days a year (and yes we always hope the farmers receive enough rain).
  • We have the opportunity to learn and stay at school (far longer than many developing countries children).
  • We have good, and often free, health care compared to most countries overseas (and well-trained health staff).
  • We have a sense of humour that is uniquely ours (and I hope we keep it despite so-called political correctness).
  • We have comradeship that’s true blue (as shown by ‘Anzac Day‘, ‘The Mud Army‘, ‘Hay Runs‘, ‘Victorian Bushfires‘ and so many more).
  • We have unlimited choices in sport and sportsmanship (even those who don’t play sport at lease read and support a sport) (mine is CrossFit).
  • We have paths, parks, beaches, schools, walkways, pools, gyms, lookouts, mountains and plenty of other places to stay fit and healthy or just chill and enjoy our country.
  • We have the freedom to write a blog, a letter to the editor, a social media post – without our government shutting it down (as is the case in some countries overseas).
  • Women are equal (okay we are getting there with pay scale and women’s sports coverage, and due to people like Rosie Batty equality and fairness in each Australian home). At least we have a voice and one that is getting stronger.
  • We can live comfortably (even some of our poorest who are helped by our government) compared to many counties overseas.
  • We mostly choose to be givers not takers. (It’s a fact that Australians are a generous bunch, regularly volunteering or donating to charity).
  • We have untouched places – waterfalls, canyons, inland lakes, rainforests and the fl0ra and fauna living in their abundance.
  • We have a Defence Force that is just that defence not attack. A well trained force we can be proud of and lets include our police, ambulance fire and all other frontline workers. We thank you today and every day.
  • We have cultural diversity, but keep our uniqueness of our colloquial voice and our sense of humour.

Most of all we are raised in a land of:




Perfection (perfect imperfections that is)






Which should lead us all to happiness.

On top of that we have diversity, abundance, hope, compassion, kindness, respect and we have the power to do anything and be anyone because we are Australian.

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Getting happy after the Australian Floods

The recent (and ongoing) floods have brought to life ‘the good Aussie nature of mateship’. That’s a wonderful thing in a time of stress, grief and disbelief, particularly for the families and businesses involved.

There have been numerous stories of heroics and heartache but there is so much more to it than that. The repercussions are bouncing all over this great nation. Flooding further south, food shortages, businesses without stock (I heard even roof tilers can’t work because they can’t get tiles), businesses sent to the brink, delays, mishaps, isolation, ruined food, furniture and clothing, breakups and breakdowns.

But it’s not just the floods – there’s always something tragic happening.

I was told of a Chinderah family whose family burnt down during this season of rain and flooding. Spare a thought for them. The house was gutted so they’ve lost everything. At any other time the nation would rally around them but with the focus on flooding they’ve hardly rated a mention, let alone fundraising on their behalf.

There are many people in need for so many other reasons, cancer, homelessness, losing a child, parent or partner, accidents, ill-health – you name it.

For a variety of reasons I’ve been unable to get up to Brissy to join the Mud Army and I’ve felt guilty. I’ve also felt guilty for wanting to turn off the TV because all the flood coverage was upsetting me and I choose to be happy as much as possible. Watching Two and a Half Men gave me a laugh instead of tears. How many other people have felt like that? Compelled to keep watching but not wanting to see the horror any more!

I’m a firm believer in positive thinking, so to watch what’s been going and being bombarded with it day and night isn’t very positive. Okay, there are the uplifting stories but even they make me cry. I think I would be much more productive if I were happy and motivated. For example my friends have organised (with The Red Cross) a fundraising event on Australia Day at a local park where we regularly hold our Aussie Day BBQ. It will be a fun event but we’ll also be able to raise much needed funds.

The plan, my friend Lisa tells me, is, “We’ll fine people for missing a catch at cricket or they’ll have to pay when they get bowled out. Maybe they can put a dollar in the tin every time they swear or when they crack open a beer. It will be a fun way to help out.” Now that’s the Aussie spirit.

Yes, I’m proud that we’ve all rallied to help out the flood victims but we should be helping out all the time, not just a major crisis.

Little things count. Try these every day and you’ll be using Aussie Spirit:

  • Smile at strangers (not a your-crazy smile but a nice-friendly one).
  • Help a pensioner load their groceries into their car when you notice they are struggling (try not to break their eggs).
  • Offer to volunteer at your local sporting club (you don’t have to be fit you just need to be able to flip a sausage or serve at the canteen).
  • Have empathy – never judge someone especially if you don’t know them well enough to voice an opinion.
  • Let someone have the car park you are both nudging into (come on just try it and see how good you feel – plus you won’t incite road-carpark rage).
  • Praise someone about an accomplishment or tell them they look beautiful just to boost their spirits (especially your children).
  • Find ways to make the world better eg. volunteer abroad or in an outback community.
  • Be nice to animals and people alike.
  • Watch out for tourist nearing a rip at your local beach.
  • Help your neighbours when they are in need (not just cups of sugar but real friendship).

And if you just want to help with the floods here’s the into from the Today Show’s website:

Queensland flood appeal – Donate by visiting
Lifeline – or call 131114.
Goods collection – We are collecting donations of clothes, kitchen items (electrical items -must be new), shoes, linen, baby needs, small household items, toys.
DROP OFF OFF GOODS WILL COMMENCE: Friday 21st of January, 2011 and will continue until container is full (Monday to Friday only please)
Givit –
Wikifloods – Grantham – or
Baked relief –
Mud Army T-shirts – Limited edition – 2500 Mud Army shirts. On-sale next Wednesday at Suncorp Stadium for $20 with 100 percent of sales going to the flood relief appeal.
School supplies –
Caravan of Angels – To offer financial support register at

Volunteer groups – Contact Brisbane City Council on 07 3403 8888 or visit
Individual volunteers – Register through Volunteering Queensland on 07 3002 7600 or visit

Most of all smile and be positive so that happiness becomes catchy!

 And to all our authors and printers caught up in the caos we wish you a quick clean up, fast recovery and happiness again.

This post also appears at: Books Zeus